Is it OK to look in your dog s eyes

Is it Bad to Stare a Dog in the Eyes? (+ What It Means)

There are conflicting ideas about whether its bad to stare a dog in the eyes. Whilst some dog owners, trainers and behaviorists swear by it, claiming that it can help deepen your bond with your pup and make them easier to train, others argue that it will only serve to distress and agitate your dog. I believe theres a reason for these varied opinions; the difference between staring and eye contact with dogs.

Is it bad to stare a dog in the eyes? It can be bad to stare a dog in the eyes as it can scare them and be perceived as a threat. However, scientists have discovered that making eye contact with your own dog can strengthen the bond between owner and canine.

So, that might sound a little confusing, but let me explain as we need to make the important distinction between staring at a dog and making eye contact with a dog. The two things are different. One could provoke a negative reaction, the other, a positive reaction.

Whilst the latter can help you build a more positive, loving relationship with your pup, looking into a dogs eye with a stare can be bad, resulting anxiety and confrontation.

Is eye contact with dogs bad?

It depends on the circumstances, and often whether you know the dog, or its a complete stranger to you. For example, with your own dog, eye contact can be good rather than bad, providing its the right setting and mood. The eye contact should also be short. This means that positive eye contact with your dog should last around one to two seconds.

More prolonged eye contact, which is more how you would describe staring, can have negative consequences. Dogs can see staring as a threat, which will then cause them upset and anxiety.

Do dogs like to look you in the eyes?

Your dog does like you to look into their eyes in certain circumstances. According to a study, it can actually be a good thing (heres the 2016 study).

Results provided evidence that pet dogs did not rely on details of owners direction of visual attention. Instead, they relied on the whole combination of visual cues and especially on the owners availability to make eye contact. Dogs increased visual communicative behaviors when they established eye contact with their owners.

The key difference though is between staring and eye contact.

To give you an example, when two dogs meet in a park, they will rarely make sustained eye contact. Unlike us humans, eye contact is not considered a positive thing. The only time that dog will tend to lock eyes is for the temporary moment when play is just about to start.

Youve probably seen it; if they are both up for the game, the play bow between the two will happen first. They will then make eye contact for a few seconds, which I assume is a form of reciprocation, and then take off and play.

On the other hand, if two dogs meet in a park and lock eyes and stare each other down, its a sign of aggression and means potential trouble is brewing.

And this is all you need to understand; dog eye contact or staring is all context based.

So, if you look a dog in the eyes and dont offer any other visual or verbal clues as to how youre feeling, it could scare the dog and provoke a negative response.

This is why its bad to stare a dog in the eyes, particularly one that you dont know. Strange dogs dont have any prior trust in you and dont know what your intentions are. If the dog looks skittish and on edge, prolonged and direct eye contact is bad and should be avoided.

Its not about dominance

A misconception around dog-human eye contact is its correlation with dominance and power dynamics between yourself and your pet. The truth is, there isnt really any such thing as dominance between a dog and an owner.

Whilst a lot of owners (and some trainers) swear by staring at their dog to assert dominance, the fact is that this is nothing more than a myth.

In fact, the trainer who originally championed this training method has since admitted that the link between staring and dominance is tenuous, to say the least.

Handy Hint: You might also have a problem whereby your dog wont settle, and will instead stare at you all night as you sleep. Heres how to fix that one.

Should you make eye contact with dogs?

But that isnt to say that eye contact cant be an important tool when it comes to training your dog and making them more obedient. It just comes back to making that important distinction between staring and eye contact.

Whilst weve established that staring at a dog could result in a reaction you dont want, science shows that sharing eye contact with your own dog can be beneficial. Another study from 2015 revealed that when a dog looks us in the eyes, we release oxytocin a hormone released when mother dogs nurse their puppies into our bloodstreams.

Findings support the existence of an interspecies oxytocin-mediated positive loop facilitated and modulated by gazing, which may have supported the coevolution of human-dog bonding by engaging common modes of communicating social attachment.

This in turn suggests that eye contact between dog and owner can help to strengthen your bond on a familial level, especially since dogs are able to pick up on their owners oxytocin levels once its expelled through their urine.

As well as strengthening your bond, more eye contact with your dog can be useful because it can help them become more focussed, and in turn help them become better at training and sports.

If distractions prevent your dog from learning new tricks or co-operating with you in agility tasks, training them to look into your eyes on cue can help to gently direct them back to the task at hand and become more disciplined as a result.

Handy Hint: Other studies have suggested that dogs believe owners are their parents. Building up trust with eye contact would certainly support that.

What does it mean when a dog stares you in the eyes?

If your dog is the one making the eye contact and staring at you, you might be wondering what is behind their desire to stare at you. There is more than one reason why they suddenly might be watching you like a hawk, but all of them are important and worth paying attention to.

1. They are trying to read your emotions

One major reason why a dog might find themselves staring into your eyes is that they are trying to read your emotions. It is often said that eyes are the window to the soul, so if you catch your dog staring deeply into your eyes, it may well be that they are trying to look through that window themselves.

Dogs are more intelligent and attuned to human emotion than we sometimes give them credit for, and theyll know that if you seem happy, you are more likely to give them positive attention (and treats!).

This is particularly true if you have previously trained your dog using methods related to positive reinforcement. You might find that your dog stares at you to seek cues that you want them to perform a trick or specific task such as sit or fetch.

As mentioned, if treats or other rewards are often factored into these activities, you can be sure that your dog will be keen to act upon any sign that you want them to perform a trick.

It is also worth noting that with the absence of language, dogs rely heavily on our body language and actions to understand their environment and what could be happening next. For example, if you get out their lead, they will learn to associate that with imminently going on a walk.

Essentially, your dog sees you as their compass, as they study your mood, actions and gestures for signs of you doing something that will impact them.

Handy Hint: In the absence of being able to talk with our dogs, we rely heavily on body language. Heres how your dog can possibly apologize to you using visual clues.

2. They want to tell you how they feel

On the flip side of the coin, your dog might stare at you in order to try and convey their feelings to you as opposed to trying to work out yours.

For example, if they are standing by the back door and refuse to break eye contact, it is safe to assume that they are trying to tell you that they need the toilet.

One thing to be careful of is how your dog stares when youre eating. Whilst it is natural for them to stare out of interest, hunger and a desire for you to share with them, you shouldnt give them food if they stare at you eating.

This will just teach them that if they stare at you long enough, they will get a reward, which isnt a productive or healthy behaviour pattern for them.

Furthermore, if their staring is coupled with unusual symptoms, they might be trying to let you know they feel unwell. If you have any doubts, you should talk to your vet immediately.

Handy Hint: Find out why dogs hate it so much when you blow in their face or on their nose.

Conclusion

Provided that you understand the distinction between staring at your dog and making eye contact with your dog, you can feel confident that through more eye contact, you and your pup can have a deeper bond and become more in tune with one another.

However, if you are out and about and you encounter a strange dog, it could be bad to stare them in the eyes, so please exercise caution.

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8 Common Causes of Bloodshot Eyes in Dogs and How to Treat Them

8 Potential Causes of Bloodshot Eyes in Dogs

Bloodshot eyes in dogs may or may not be cause for concern. There are numerous reasons why your dogs eyes are red. For example, some naturally have red in their eyes.⁴

In this article, well cover the following topics regarding bloodshot eyes in dogs:

• Common causes and their symptoms
• Potential treatment options
• When to see a veterinarian

1. Corneal Ulceration

Corneal ulcers happen if your dog gets a scratch on their eye or a foreign object stuck in it. As a result, the cornea can appear red.¹

Symptoms

• Squinting with one or both eyes
• Discharge from the tear glands in the inner corner of the eyes
• Scratching or rubbing at the eyes
• Excessive blinking

Treatment

To treat a corneal ulcer, your vet might prescribe antibiotic eye drops to prevent infections from developing in your dogs eye.

2. Eye Trauma

Eye injuries are common in dogs, especially if they get a foreign body stuck in their eye while playing.For example, if your dog fights with another dog or animal, that leads to an eye scratch or injury, it might appear red.

Symptoms

• Bleeding
• Discharge
• Watery eyes
• Bacterial infection from wounds
• Squinting
• Swelling
• Sensitivity to bright light

Treatment

The best treatment for an eye injury depends on the type. Your dog will need a proper diagnosis from a veterinary ophthalmologist.

In severe cases of physical trauma, your dog might need surgical treatment or stitches. The vet may prescribe pain medications.

3. Conjunctivitis

Conjunctivitis (pink eye) can occur in people and dogs. A viral or bacterial infection causes this condition and leads to your dogs eyes reddening.^2,3,8

Symptoms

• Itchiness
• Swelling
• Watery discharge
• Excessive blinking or squinting

Treatment

You can usually treat conjunctivitis with eye drops. They can also treat other symptoms of pink eye beyond eye redness. For example, they help lubricate your dogs eyes and prevent pain and itchiness.

4. Environmental Irritants & Allergies

Certain environmental irritants can affect your dogs eyes. These include dust or other allergens in the air.² They can also have a food allergy that can cause red eyes.

Symptoms

• Itchy eyes
• Scratching or rubbing at the eyes
• Watery eyes
• Dry eye
• Inflammation
• Swelling

Treatment

If seasonal allergies are causing your dog to have bloodshot eyes, ointments or oral medications might help. In the case of seasonal allergies, bloodshot eyes and other symptoms typically subside on their own. Allergy testing, such as blood tests, can help determine or rule out specific food and pet care product allergies.

5. Infection

Redness is a common symptom if your dogs eye has an infection. If left untreated, the condition and symptoms can worsen and become painful.

Symptoms

• Enlarged blood vessels
• Watery discharge
• Itchiness
• Pain

Treatment

If your dog has an eye infection, the vet may prescribe an ointment or medication to kill the bacteria causing the infection.

6. Eyelid Problems

Eyelid problems can also cause red eyes in dogs. It can happen if the eyelids fold out (ectropion) or in (entropion). When they fold out, your dogs eyes are left unprotected. When they fold in, the eyelashes can irritate the eyes surface.

Symptoms

• Folded eyelids
• Itching
• Dry eye

Treatment

Many long-haired and flat-faced breeds have trouble with their eyelids due to fur and skin obstructing their vision. Keeping your dogs eyes healthy by maintaining proper pet care is important.^5,7

7. Glaucoma

Glaucoma is a common condition that affects many older dogs. It can lead to red eyes and other symptoms.⁶ It occurs due to a fluid build-up in the eye, which causes pressure.

Glaucoma is a serious eye condition that can lead to vision loss. Because of this, its important to see a veterinarian immediately.

Symptoms

• Difficulty seeing
• Cloudy eyes
• Dry eyes
• Eye swelling
• Abnormal discharge
• Haziness in the eye
• Pain

Treatment

Glaucoma in dogs can get worse with age. Oral or injected medications can help treat glaucoma. In some cases, your dog may need surgery.

8. Dry Eye Syndrome

Dry eye syndrome or keratoconjunctivitis sicca (KCS) is a health condition that can affect people and dogs. It happens when the eyes do not produce enough moisture and feel very dry, causing redness.²

Some breeds of dogs are more prone to dry eye syndrome than others. Its typically caused by an injury or a weakened immune system, which can lead to infection or corneal ulcers.

Symptoms

• Dry eyes
• Difficulty seeing
• Eye redness
• Inflammation
• Mucus oreye gunk

Treatment

If your dog suffers from dry eye syndrome, your vet might prescribe artificial tears to help induce tear production and lubricate their eyes. They may also prescribe antibiotic eye drops or immunosuppressant drugs, depending on the cause.

When to See a Veterinarian

Typically, you can treat your dogs red eyes with medications. However, you should talk to your veterinarian if your dogs red appears out of nowhere or gets worse over time. Especially if your dogs eyes dont improve with treatment.

Other signs that you should call a veterinarian include:

• Noticing something new or odd in your dogs eye
• Frequent eye scratching or rubbing
• Eye swelling
• Eye discharge or gunk
• Excessive squinting

How Do You Prevent Bloodshot Eyes on Your Dog?

There are various ways to prevent red eyes and keep your dogs eyes as healthy as possible. Here are a few things you can do to prevent red eyes on your dog:

• Grooming and hair trimming around the eyes
• Cleaning eye discharge or gunk
• Keep an eye out for excessive eye rubbing or scratching
• Regular veterinary exams

Summary

The recovery timeline depends on why your dogs eyes are red. The outlook is generally positive since most cases resolve independently or with eye drops.

However, if a more severe condition like glaucoma is the cause, your dog might require lifelong treatment.If youre concerned, talk to your veterinarian so they can determine a proper treatment plan for your dog.